Personality !! Your Tango

Every human being has a mysterious something we call personality.

What I have observed, experienced, and been taught is when we say that a person "has a Good personality" what we really mean is that he has freed and released the creative potential within him and is able to express his real self.

In a similar way, a person with a "Poor or Inhibit personality" does not express the creative self within. He has restrained it, handcuffed it, locked it up, and thrown away the key. For one reason or the other, he is afraid to express himself, afraid to be himself, and has locked up his real self within an inner peace.

We often come across some behavioral symptoms of inhibition in our day-to-day lives, shyness, timidity, self-consciousness, hostility, feelings of excessive guilt, insomnia, nervousness, irritability, inability to get along with others, and especially Frustration.

His real and basic frustration is his failure to be himself and his failure to adequately express himself. But this basic frustration is likely to color and overflow into all that he does.

We all can agree that we observe these symptoms in us as well, me too. Unfortunately, people end up taking decades or a lifetime in correcting them. But if in case you are being guided by successful people towards your higher dreams/purpose like how I experienced, then these might become simple obstacles than road blockers or breakers.

Finally, as Albert Einstein always say

Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.